The clitoral region is actually hidden from view by folds of skin. It doesn’t rub against clothing and it is not conspicuous. For these reasons, the clitoris when touched during sexual activity can send thrilling feelings all over the woman’s body.
During sex, however, the clitoral region tends to be forgotten. The vaginal opening, where penetration occurs, is where the friction is highest; not the areas near the clitoral area. The tip of the clitoris, which is responsible for females’s orgasmic potential during masturbation, is not in the area where friction is strongest (the vaginal opening). These may be the major reasons why females find it hard to climax during sex.
When the woman is aroused, the clitoris swells so that the tip becomes rigid and hard to the touch. There are other parts of the clitoris and most of them are connected with the muscles and tissues inside the vagina. There have been speculations about the clitoris’ “feet” extending towards the spot where some tissues around the urethra create a so-called g spot. But, there’s still a debate whether or not the g spot really exists. The fact that a lot of women are still not reaching climax during sex tells of the huge role of the clitoral region in female orgasm.
Stimulating the clitoral region During Sex
1. Manual Stimulating
When sexual activity starts, either the man or the female should work on stroking the clitoris. Engaging in positions like dogstyle or woman on top will expose the clitoris to touching. The clitoris can be fondled by one partner or both while the sex is ongoing.
Always use a lubricated finger to touch the clitoris. The clitoral region can become sore and numb if exposed to too much friction.
2. Grinding of the Pubic Region
In sex positions that don’t allow touching with hands (because both the man and the female need both hands to balance), or when the man finds it hard to stroke the female’s clitoris, the man can grind his pubic area on the female’s mound to stimulate the clitoris. One sex position allows this; it’s called coital alignment. The man slides his upper thighs in such a way that there’s pressure on the female’s pubic mound.
3. Clitoris-Friendly sex Toys
The clitoral region can be stimulated directly during sex by using vibrators and gadgets, such as pocket rockets, we-vibe, hitachi magic wand, strap ons etc. These tools put pressure on the woman’s clitoral area so that pressure in that area builds even though the chief source of friction is in the vagina. The man can also use a penis ring with a built-in clitoral massager on the upper part of the band. With a penis ring, both the man and the woman feel the vibrations.
Gentle rubbing of the clitoris is powerful enough to induce orgasm. Women and their partners should use the suggestions above to find more sexual satisfaction.
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